Keeping a relationship as a former incel, passing and failing shit tests, meditation on the emotional pain on losing the relationship

31 01 2017

I realize that on many incel forum online discussions people often talk about getting the relationship. However; few speak of keeping the relationship and dealing with the emotional pain of losing the relationship some incels spent a lifetime to finally obtain.

For the non-cel, many of them have a life time of practice on passing shit tests by women since middle school. For the incel they do not. To the incel who finally obtained the relationship, on the emotional level he clearly needs her more than she needs him. The common mistakes the former-incel would make is that he will try to please her every whim and desire, and be overjoyed at her approval, which in turn he will ultimately lose her respect.

Other mistakes in today’s world of texting would involve becoming anxious when the woman does not respond to his text in time, narratives of her dumping him would run through his head. The fear and the paranoia of losing the relationship stress on his mind.

In today’s society, due to women’s unchecked hypergamous nature the idea that she will one day walk out on you on a whim or cheat on you with an individual like Mr. J, is an unfortunate reality.

Former incels should meditate on these unfortunate realities like the samurai who meditate on his own death in the most horrific ways in battle, or dying of disease. The former incel should meditate on the possibility of the cheating partner, being dumped, her walking out on him on a whim, being nexted for a hotter guy, being divorced and half of his money, etc. This is a necessary act in handling the emotional pain even the most experienced non-cel might succumb to.

“Every morning a warrior should recommit himself to death. In morning meditation, see yourself killed in various ways, such as being shredded by arrows, bullets, swords, and spears, being swept away by a tidal wave, burned by fire, struck by lightening, dying in a earthquake, falling from a great height, or succumbing to overwhelming sickness. An elder warrior said, “Once out of your front door you are surrounded by death. Once you leave your gate you are surrounded by enemies.” This saying is not merely a parable, but a way to prepare for your fate.” — Yamamoto Tsunetomo, Hagakure





What would you have done?

26 01 2017

Hey, you think the chick should run away with the thug instead? a clear display of the badboy/nice guy dichotomy here.





I hope leftists and rightists kill each other in Trump’s inauguration

20 01 2017

Now that Trump is being inaugurated the leftists are finally joining the tea party i.e. not paying taxes and arming themselves. I hope that Hell’s Angels and feminists erupt into a fight during the inauguration… better yet maybe the feminists can manipulate BLM people to kill Hell’s Angels. That would be far more entertaining

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Genetics Test result: I am a descendant of Genghis Khan

1 01 2017

So, the result of the DNA test finally came back. As I suspected, I am not a pure Chinese. The surprise is that my paternal Haplogroup they testing I have the haplogroup C, which is commonly found among Oroqens, Mongolians, and the Souix Indians of north America. This haplogroup is spread by the rise Mongol empire. I am probably a direct descendant of the great Khan himself.

My maternal haplogroup is B4a, which is found among nearly 100% of Native Americans in South West America and Northern Mexico.

As much as I dislike American culture, I knew there is a reason why I have the primal instinctive love I have for the land. Looking at the my two haplogroup halves, even though I am East Asian, the two haplogroup’s most common overlap is actually in the American Great Plains. Just something interesting I thought to share.





Recently ordered genetics test, colorism among Asians

27 11 2016

I recently ordered a genetics test online. I have been very curious about my own ancestry, as I read the reddit entry in my previous post. I noticed that colorism is prevelant among the Chinese(my own background) community as well. In China, dark skinned people are persecuted. I inherited my dark skin from my birth mother, and obviously having dark skin is NOT a common characteristic among the Chinese. I don’t look Chinese, and many Chinese people are surprised I can speak mandarin(might actually be that lighter skinned Asian women tend to systematically reject me). Chinese people often ask me “are you from Tibet?” or “Are you from Mongolia?” Let the test answer those questions





Interesting Reddit post by an English-Indian man

21 11 2016




My experiences vs the conventional stereotypes

7 11 2016

after reading the blog post by on why half Asians with white mother asian fathers seems to turn out better I started to think about some of my own personal experiences on “white only” Asian women, where sometimes reality and popular knowledge/stereotypes are often 180 degrees out of phase.

Stereotypes have positive image of Asian women for being feminine, nice and pleasant. Conversely the stereotype for black women is the complete opposite, where they are seen as vulgar, mean, and aggressive.However; my own personal experiences state the complete opposite. As from the blogger mentioned above, many Asian women prefer white men purely on a racial basis, they will get out of their way to hate on Asian men because they feel like they have something to prove, thus getting out of their way to be nasty as possible to Asian men. The women I have seen in their craziest, nastiest, and irrational states are Asian women(such as my stepmother after arguing with my father). In the reverse, my most pleasant experiences (in interactions with American women at least), the most laid back and the nicest people to hang out with, are black women.

My questions to Asian and Asian American men who reads this, I wonder if you guys have similar experiences?








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