My response to “The 4th Year Virgin” podcast. Phil Leung is a complete moron.

10 03 2017

I recently listened to a podcast :http://www.cbc.ca/radio/campus/the-4th-year-virgin-1.3975017

It is about a Chinese Canadian college student, Phil Leung, in his struggle of the stereotypical Asian male on the western dating scene, eventually “found love”. Leung as a child a very Chinese Christian(Christianity with confucian influence) upbringing that took chastity and education very seriously. In return he lived a very sheltered live away from the decadent realities of western society. In his first days of college he realized that his peers cared far more about hooking up than their academic performance. Instead of differentiating good culture from bad, he simply want to fit in to the evil ways of western decadence. He went through the typical phase of the redpill Asian male:

  1. unlearn their traditional upbringing( best thing that has ever happen to him is that he did something that his upbringing completely forbid: pre-marital sex with a slut)
  2. embrace western decadence
  3. hitting the gym
  4. learn PUA

However, none of these things has changed his dating life. He simply had the fortune to meet 1 woman out of millions that sees past the ching-chong chinaman, his conclusion is that his problem is “confidence” not because of his race… He is a complete moron. How can race not be a factor when he followed the steps that worked for white guys but did not work for him? How can race not be a factor when all the Chinese girls in his school date white guys?

If the current girl he is with walks out on him on a whim, do you think he can get another relationship?

The truth is that the Asian males, particularly ones with traditional upbringing that is influenced by 5000 years of Confucian courtesy, Daoist spiritualism and Buddhist ethics clearly put us in a disadvantage in modern dating which validates immorality and stupidity. The culture that values education and filial piety clearly struggles with modern dating more than the culture that encourage busting caps and slapping hoes.

I actually knew Asian men who dates western women. Those guys typically have to go the extra mile in becoming the evil moron that western women like, as they have something to prove.  If “confidence” is the final answer he got, then he has learn nothing in the 4 years in the cultural cesspool

Mr. Leung, if you are reading this, this is my gift to you:

https://survivingincel.wordpress.com/2014/04/19/the-art-of-whore/





will sound like a broken record

28 09 2014

This is a reference back to one of my previous posts

https://survivingincel.wordpress.com/2014/06/22/my-father-is-right-in-retrospect-franklin-might-be-wrong-in-some-cases-some-thoughts/

On the choosing criteria of Asian vs. Western women, it just seems that both criteria is toxic and screws over the average working man. The western woman’s choosing criteria, as she can have relation with whoever she please under feminism, she will be part of the harem of an “Alpha” male that is tall, muscular, square jaw, etc. She does not mind sharing the “sexy man” with 99 other women as long as she has a piece of him. This is the where why body building, aesthetics movement of being “shredded” is becoming mainstream in the west. Outside of the west, men are not so obsessed with muscle building(you still need height and face to back it up).

 

consequently in East Asia, most women could hardly care less what you look like as long as you have money. She will look for me without any resolve, and control him and his money by withholding sex and nagging. If she can have access to your money without sex, you are more desirable. Its not as much as she is into you, its the access to your money thats more desirable, then spending it all then move on. They are less interested in sex, more interested in (Your) money.

 

In both cases, the average working man gets fucked over. The western woman will down right ignore the working man as she has access to money via the welfare state and her “independence” of working. On the other hand, the Asian woman will bleed the working man dry, then move on. My message to my fellow incels who decides to go abroad, be sure to also avoid East Asia.





Qualities and lack of …

14 09 2014

If you have a lot of qualities from this list

1. extremely shy and introverted
2. socially awkward
3. bad fashion sense
4. ugly/deformed
5. out of shape, not athletic, skinny or fat, short
6. nerdy, obscure interests like Dnd, magic the gathering, start wars geek, star trek geek etc.
7. videogamer
8. weak, wimpy, cannot stand their ground in a confrontation, gets “blocked” and “shut down” in social situations
9. not a bad boy, too sensitive, lack masculine qualities, just don’t fit into the handsome badboy stereotype
10. affinity for math, science, and engineering
11. dead beat, poor, dead end job, going nowhere in life
12. too long of dry spell, did not have sex in a long time and now women don’t want to have anything to do with you. damaged goods
13. looking too ethnic, being east asian or indian in a western country.

and none of the qualities in this list

1. irresponsibility
2. tall, athletic, square jaw, muscular
3. have a criminal record (other than traffic violation)
4. prone to violence
5. insecure and goes out of his way to dominate and be assertive
6. extremely high confidence and self esteem (violent criminals have high self esteem)
7. ballin’ with money and expensive drugs (Cocaine)
8. interest in sports, follows the game
9. tend to start shit and prey on those who they deem weaker
10. have a good fashion sense, knows how to dress
11. smooth with lines, silver tongue, always knows what to say.
12. have a presence, first thing people notice when they enter the room

things should become very apparent.

 





which of the following do you think is the most likely to happen

2 09 2014

I am wondering about the next generation of feminism and sexual harassment laws (I don’t think most women realize the power they have, as they can make a guy lose his job and go to jail only on the basis of her word), aggressive promotion of homosexuality in the media,  demonization of heterosexuality particularly of physically unattractive men, will there be mandatory “turn gay” camps for those men like the “turn straight” camps that conservative Christians have? Further more, will there be public lynching of incels and “creeps” in fear of rape as women claim they feel uncomfortable around these men? Swedish feminists are already chanting “hang all men”, I fear these days are not that far ahead.

 





Eliott Rodger and Aziz Shavershian, fool and the wise man

11 08 2014

The similarities between Rodger and Shavershian, at least for most their lives, is absolutely astonishing. Both individuals are the typical nerds, self proclaimed video game addicts, skinny, and social outcasts. Given similar conditions, we can see the obvious choices made by the wise man and the fool to completely different outcomes

http://omegavirginrevolt.wordpress.com/2014/06/01/the-dating-advice-industry-drove-elliot-rodger-insane/

It doesn’t take a genius to figure out, even for Rodgers, that most dating advice, PUA gurus, or what society tells him are complete BS. His few references to PUAHate is enough for us to see that he saw through the lies of the PUA industry, but even with the money and resources his family has, he could figure out the obvious solution to his problem. He cracked and went on a shooting spree like George Sodini, Jared Lee Loughner, James Eagan Holmes, and Cho Seung -Hui, all the incels that came before him. He went out shooting like all the other fools, and died like the way he lived: like a whiny little bitch. If you want sex, the state of Nevada is right next door. You got money, go get whores!

Aziz Shavershian took a very different path.

He saw through the truth in western society. He knew what was BS (character, personality) and what holds true (looks, money, status). He sold his World of Warcraft account for a gym membership. There were videos he made on youtube showing his progress. Of course there were haters calling him a “skinny faggot” and so on. But he ignored the haters and continued his training. Of course when his looks improved, he started to bang girls left and right. See, it wasn’t his looks that got him his fame as much as his philosophy. He even knew where to look for prostitutes in Thailand, and Rodger did not. Made me wonder if Rodger would take the same path as Shavershian, what would happen instead…

 





Rishi Bajaj, Liz Kranz, Max McGarr…

16 07 2014

http://nypost.com/2013/03/03/beauty-queen-took-my-heart-then-she-took-me-for-96000-ride-hedge-funders-suit/

a rather interesting story for sharing. A beauty queen who was with a hedge fund manager, go on shopping spree in Europe and travels in exotic location using her ex’s money, leaves the rich man for an MMA hunk, for the obvious reason I will not repeat.this story sounds eerily similar to the show Average Joe, where the beauty queen Melana Scantlin chose the handsome waiter Jason Peoples over the successful Wall Street Trader Adam Mesh. Only in the west will money lose out time and time again to looks.

It is interesting to note if a similar headline in East Asia takes place will be the complete different. You will hear the headlines of the beauty queen leaving the MMA hunk for the hedge fund manager.

Hypergamy is hardwired in the genetics. Looks beat Money in the west, money beats looks in the east, its simply one form of hypergamy for another.





“failure” of Eastern values in western culture

22 04 2014

It is not a mystery that Asian/Indian men in the west struggle the most in modern dating, and I do not think it is a coincidence that Asian/Indian men are also over-represented in high education particularly in the STEM fields.

It seems obvious to me, that those Asian/Indian men who did not struggle in the west, are typically adopted or completely westernized (twinkie/banana). Those who came from traditional families typically have to go AGAINST what their parents tell them to find sexual success. The more the son obeyed the traditionalist parents, the less successful with women they are(unless they are physically attractive enough to stand out)

the asian logic of study hard in STEM field, get a good job, make money, then women will be naturally attracted to you does not work in the west as due to feminism, women no longer depend on men for economic reliance, as they can depend on the state to provide while they fuck bad boys. Men are no longer valued on there providing abilities.

The typical obedient Asian kid would be spending time studying Chemistry, physics, and calculus, preparing for their SATs and AP exams while his peers are getting high with friends, trying out for the track team, deciding who to ask for a date to the school dance, or who to hook up with after school.

According to Dr. Brian G Gilmartin, Skills with the opposite sex takes a life time to accumulate. if you did not accumulate the skills early in life it is less likely for you to obtain skill later.

are Asian parents wrong to bring their values here? Are the twinkies/bananas right to rebel?








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