My response to “The 4th Year Virgin” podcast. Phil Leung is a complete moron.

10 03 2017

I recently listened to a podcast :http://www.cbc.ca/radio/campus/the-4th-year-virgin-1.3975017

It is about a Chinese Canadian college student, Phil Leung, in his struggle of the stereotypical Asian male on the western dating scene, eventually “found love”. Leung as a child a very Chinese Christian(Christianity with confucian influence) upbringing that took chastity and education very seriously. In return he lived a very sheltered live away from the decadent realities of western society. In his first days of college he realized that his peers cared far more about hooking up than their academic performance. Instead of differentiating good culture from bad, he simply want to fit in to the evil ways of western decadence. He went through the typical phase of the redpill Asian male:

  1. unlearn their traditional upbringing( best thing that has ever happen to him is that he did something that his upbringing completely forbid: pre-marital sex with a slut)
  2. embrace western decadence
  3. hitting the gym
  4. learn PUA

However, none of these things has changed his dating life. He simply had the fortune to meet 1 woman out of millions that sees past the ching-chong chinaman, his conclusion is that his problem is “confidence” not because of his race… He is a complete moron. How can race not be a factor when he followed the steps that worked for white guys but did not work for him? How can race not be a factor when all the Chinese girls in his school date white guys?

If the current girl he is with walks out on him on a whim, do you think he can get another relationship?

The truth is that the Asian males, particularly ones with traditional upbringing that is influenced by 5000 years of Confucian courtesy, Daoist spiritualism and Buddhist ethics clearly put us in a disadvantage in modern dating which validates immorality and stupidity. The culture that values education and filial piety clearly struggles with modern dating more than the culture that encourage busting caps and slapping hoes.

I actually knew Asian men who dates western women. Those guys typically have to go the extra mile in becoming the evil moron that western women like, as they have something to prove.  If “confidence” is the final answer he got, then he has learn nothing in the 4 years in the cultural cesspool

Mr. Leung, if you are reading this, this is my gift to you:

https://survivingincel.wordpress.com/2014/04/19/the-art-of-whore/





Keeping a relationship as a former incel, passing and failing shit tests, meditation on the emotional pain on losing the relationship

31 01 2017

I realize that on many incel forum online discussions people often talk about getting the relationship. However; few speak of keeping the relationship and dealing with the emotional pain of losing the relationship some incels spent a lifetime to finally obtain.

For the non-cel, many of them have a life time of practice on passing shit tests by women since middle school. For the incel they do not. To the incel who finally obtained the relationship, on the emotional level he clearly needs her more than she needs him. The common mistakes the former-incel would make is that he will try to please her every whim and desire, and be overjoyed at her approval, which in turn he will ultimately lose her respect.

Other mistakes in today’s world of texting would involve becoming anxious when the woman does not respond to his text in time, narratives of her dumping him would run through his head. The fear and the paranoia of losing the relationship stress on his mind.

In today’s society, due to women’s unchecked hypergamous nature the idea that she will one day walk out on you on a whim or cheat on you with an individual like Mr. J, is an unfortunate reality.

Former incels should meditate on these unfortunate realities like the samurai who meditate on his own death in the most horrific ways in battle, or dying of disease. The former incel should meditate on the possibility of the cheating partner, being dumped, her walking out on him on a whim, being nexted for a hotter guy, being divorced and half of his money, etc. This is a necessary act in handling the emotional pain even the most experienced non-cel might succumb to.

“Every morning a warrior should recommit himself to death. In morning meditation, see yourself killed in various ways, such as being shredded by arrows, bullets, swords, and spears, being swept away by a tidal wave, burned by fire, struck by lightening, dying in a earthquake, falling from a great height, or succumbing to overwhelming sickness. An elder warrior said, “Once out of your front door you are surrounded by death. Once you leave your gate you are surrounded by enemies.” This saying is not merely a parable, but a way to prepare for your fate.” — Yamamoto Tsunetomo, Hagakure





a repost from another forum:”Human existence is a truth tragedy”

9 10 2014

Many posters on this forum see that females can get sex easily, so it is a natural assumption that they have all the power because they hold all the cards, i.e. females have a huge number of sexual options… But in my experience, that is actually not the case at all: the more attractive a female is, the more exclusive her social circle — her expectations and “requirements” for a mate increase dramatically, even astronomically… It is Hypergamy taken to the extreme. This kind of Hypergamy among highly attractive females means very few men actually make the cut: since this beautiful girl would only consider fucking the most desirable 5% or 10% of males, an individual male within this 5% or 10% is very valuable because he is very rare.

Men in who find themselves among the most desirable 5% are less particular and “exclusive” than their female counterparts. Unlike most men, they might not fuck “anybody,” who is willing, instead restricting themselves to the top 30% of females, but 30% is still much larger than the 5% of males a beautiful girl will be willing to fuck…

This is the only way I am able to explain situations where a beautiful girl continues following around, forgiving, and remaining faithful to a highly desirable male, even though the male sometimes cheats or otherwise disrespects the girl. And I have seen this kind of situation in real life MANY TIMES… I have known many beautiful girls, and they are not always treated as princesses by their boyfriends: often the boyfriend is clearly in the driver’s seat, and seems to have the advantaged position in the relationship, even though the girl is incredibly beautiful… Again, this is because highly desirable males (by hypergamous beautiful girl standards) are exceptionally rare and cannot be easily replaced by a partner of equal “value.”

Sometimes, during particularly harsh episodes of depression, I DID wish that all girls were insatiable, disloyal whores, because that would mean that highly desirable men could fuck them BUT never really win their hearts… and if I never found a supermodel as a wife, at least I would not be missing out because true loyalty is not really possible from women. The idea that all women are whores may be a comforting thought sometimes, but this is planet Earth, and the truth is often the most depressing of all possibilities… In this case, the truth is that only the top 10% most desirable men are considered “worthy” of love and monogamy by many females.

To men within this 10%, women appear loving, loyal, monogamous, and obsessively possessive.

To men outside of this 10%,, women seem like evil, disloyal whores who will never truly love anybody but themselves…

Human existence is truly a tragedy: Not because love and loyalty don’t exist, but because love and loyalty DO EXIST, but many humans will never encounter them… Only the fortunate, beautiful few…





will sound like a broken record

28 09 2014

This is a reference back to one of my previous posts

https://survivingincel.wordpress.com/2014/06/22/my-father-is-right-in-retrospect-franklin-might-be-wrong-in-some-cases-some-thoughts/

On the choosing criteria of Asian vs. Western women, it just seems that both criteria is toxic and screws over the average working man. The western woman’s choosing criteria, as she can have relation with whoever she please under feminism, she will be part of the harem of an “Alpha” male that is tall, muscular, square jaw, etc. She does not mind sharing the “sexy man” with 99 other women as long as she has a piece of him. This is the where why body building, aesthetics movement of being “shredded” is becoming mainstream in the west. Outside of the west, men are not so obsessed with muscle building(you still need height and face to back it up).

 

consequently in East Asia, most women could hardly care less what you look like as long as you have money. She will look for me without any resolve, and control him and his money by withholding sex and nagging. If she can have access to your money without sex, you are more desirable. Its not as much as she is into you, its the access to your money thats more desirable, then spending it all then move on. They are less interested in sex, more interested in (Your) money.

 

In both cases, the average working man gets fucked over. The western woman will down right ignore the working man as she has access to money via the welfare state and her “independence” of working. On the other hand, the Asian woman will bleed the working man dry, then move on. My message to my fellow incels who decides to go abroad, be sure to also avoid East Asia.





How do you see Mr. J.

20 09 2014

about a former roommate I had, lets call him Mr. J. He is of Indian descent who used to own a Bollywood movie store. His is a notorious adulterer who would have sex with his female customers in the back room, many of whom are married, have boyfriends, and have kids. In turn because he is so good at sex he gains his reputation, those women he fucked would go and tell their friends and they come and fuck him and his influence grows. I know what he said is true as he has his encounters recorded on video. He would tell me about it and brag about his sexual performance, and show me the sex tapes he made. He is the guy who cheated with just about every single customer that came to his store. I am wondering, do you view Mr. J positively or negatively?





Question about dry spell and adult male virginity

16 09 2014

I read about an incident on reddit where a man and his date were about to have sex at the end of their date. Suddenly the woman asks him when was the last time he had sex. He replied,”7 month ago”. She then reacted with a look of disgust and left. Now, if the average western woman would react like this to a normal man with 7 month dry spell, what do you think how will they react to life long incels? We have to work on our cover story to mask our past. the western woman like men OTHER women like, thus, making us adult life long incels comparable to inedible rotting food with mold and maggots. While female virginity and chastity are valued and charished deeply in almost every culture, from the Zulus in south Africa to the Souix Indians in the USA. However; adult male virgins/incels are the simply the untouchables, and we must accomplish something else greater either with money or mail order brides to make up for what we missed out on.

Ladies, you are welcome to chime in and give you honest opinion.





Qualities and lack of …

14 09 2014

If you have a lot of qualities from this list

1. extremely shy and introverted
2. socially awkward
3. bad fashion sense
4. ugly/deformed
5. out of shape, not athletic, skinny or fat, short
6. nerdy, obscure interests like Dnd, magic the gathering, start wars geek, star trek geek etc.
7. videogamer
8. weak, wimpy, cannot stand their ground in a confrontation, gets “blocked” and “shut down” in social situations
9. not a bad boy, too sensitive, lack masculine qualities, just don’t fit into the handsome badboy stereotype
10. affinity for math, science, and engineering
11. dead beat, poor, dead end job, going nowhere in life
12. too long of dry spell, did not have sex in a long time and now women don’t want to have anything to do with you. damaged goods
13. looking too ethnic, being east asian or indian in a western country.

and none of the qualities in this list

1. irresponsibility
2. tall, athletic, square jaw, muscular
3. have a criminal record (other than traffic violation)
4. prone to violence
5. insecure and goes out of his way to dominate and be assertive
6. extremely high confidence and self esteem (violent criminals have high self esteem)
7. ballin’ with money and expensive drugs (Cocaine)
8. interest in sports, follows the game
9. tend to start shit and prey on those who they deem weaker
10. have a good fashion sense, knows how to dress
11. smooth with lines, silver tongue, always knows what to say.
12. have a presence, first thing people notice when they enter the room

things should become very apparent.

 








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