I recently listened to a podcast :http://www.cbc.ca/radio/campus/the-4th-year-virgin-1.3975017
It is about a Chinese Canadian college student, Phil Leung, in his struggle of the stereotypical Asian male on the western dating scene, eventually “found love”. Leung as a child a very Chinese Christian(Christianity with confucian influence) upbringing that took chastity and education very seriously. In return he lived a very sheltered live away from the decadent realities of western society. In his first days of college he realized that his peers cared far more about hooking up than their academic performance. Instead of differentiating good culture from bad, he simply want to fit in to the evil ways of western decadence. He went through the typical phase of the redpill Asian male:
- unlearn their traditional upbringing( best thing that has ever happen to him is that he did something that his upbringing completely forbid: pre-marital sex with a slut)
- embrace western decadence
- hitting the gym
- learn PUA
However, none of these things has changed his dating life. He simply had the fortune to meet 1 woman out of millions that sees past the ching-chong chinaman, his conclusion is that his problem is “confidence” not because of his race… He is a complete moron. How can race not be a factor when he followed the steps that worked for white guys but did not work for him? How can race not be a factor when all the Chinese girls in his school date white guys?
If the current girl he is with walks out on him on a whim, do you think he can get another relationship?
The truth is that the Asian males, particularly ones with traditional upbringing that is influenced by 5000 years of Confucian courtesy, Daoist spiritualism and Buddhist ethics clearly put us in a disadvantage in modern dating which validates immorality and stupidity. The culture that values education and filial piety clearly struggles with modern dating more than the culture that encourage busting caps and slapping hoes.
I actually knew Asian men who dates western women. Those guys typically have to go the extra mile in becoming the evil moron that western women like, as they have something to prove. If “confidence” is the final answer he got, then he has learn nothing in the 4 years in the cultural cesspool
Mr. Leung, if you are reading this, this is my gift to you: