after reading the blog post by on why half Asians with white mother asian fathers seems to turn out better I started to think about some of my own personal experiences on “white only” Asian women, where sometimes reality and popular knowledge/stereotypes are often 180 degrees out of phase.
Stereotypes have positive image of Asian women for being feminine, nice and pleasant. Conversely the stereotype for black women is the complete opposite, where they are seen as vulgar, mean, and aggressive.However; my own personal experiences state the complete opposite. As from the blogger mentioned above, many Asian women prefer white men purely on a racial basis, they will get out of their way to hate on Asian men because they feel like they have something to prove, thus getting out of their way to be nasty as possible to Asian men. The women I have seen in their craziest, nastiest, and irrational states are Asian women(such as my stepmother after arguing with my father). In the reverse, my most pleasant experiences (in interactions with American women at least), the most laid back and the nicest people to hang out with, are black women.
My questions to Asian and Asian American men who reads this, I wonder if you guys have similar experiences?