Critique of Asian culture, parenting, and upbringing, why our men are incel and our women sellout

20 10 2013

As some of you already know the central focus of this blog is mainly on the topics of race and sexuality. I can only speak from the Asian American perspective, adopt a self critical view on why we are the LEAST desired men on the planet, and why, even though here in America we are the model minority of highest education and lowest crime rate, we as a people absolutely get no respect.

Insecurity: Paranoid about how western people/Caucasians view us

Many of us from the East Asian upbringing would agree with this. We are raised with the idea that in order to gain acceptance into western society we must appease the Caucasian majority for them to like us, what ever we do or how we conduct ourselves we always have to factor in what THEY think of us. This also includes pimping their daughters out to foreign men to gain approval of western people. This type of insecurity and eagerness to please and appease will not gain us respect but view us with disdain. If every action we take, we are considering the approval of western people, it is very obvious why our women sell out. If they don’t view us as “sick men of asia”, they view us as the “yellow peril”. If they don’t like us, why are we so paranoid/insecure we have to appease them to make them like us?

Confucian upbringing: Respect for authority

It doesn’t particularly surprise me that asian kids are the most bullied in the american schools. The kids are often told that it is wrong to fight even to defend themselves, and have to rely on supervising adults for protection. Because of our confucian upbringing of obeying teachers and parents without question, this makes Asian kids the favorite target for bullies, as submissive victims that doesn’t fight back are obvious easy targets. Later the same kids will feel fearful in interaction with their peers without a supervising adult present, leading to insecurity in social situations. Who is more likely to get a date, the bully or his victim? You rely on teachers, parents, and supervising adults. Then you rely on the system for protection. but If you get bullied in school, obviously adults DON’T protect you. If you think of a man who protects his family and property, would you think of an Asian male?

Autistic drive for academic and financial success above all else

as it should be common knowledge, the typical asian guy in school is the math nerd with the violin, not the athletic jock with the 6-pack abs. Asian parents push their children to focus ONLY on academic success, allowing minimal time for them to spend time with friends. The children grow up knowing calculus and astrophysics, but lacking the basic social skill to communicate. They foolishly  believe academic success will gain them high paying corporate jobs, then they will attract women naturally. However; even with affirmative action working AGAINST us, Asians fill the ranks of Ivy League schools. However, even as Asians succeed academically,  many of them DO NOT go far in the corporate world or even get into managerial position. As for the dating scene, as discussed before today in the age of radical feminism, where women no longer depend on men to provide, it is a time of arm candy and trophy boyfriends, having money is over rated, while having looks is under rated. As studies have shown before, better looking people are more likely to succeed in the corporate world!

Consequently, Asian and East Indian men are the favorite target the PUA frauds to peddle their products to. Asian Americans take up about 7% of US population, but 30% of PUAs have Asian/Indian ethnic background. They know that Asian men struggle the most on the dating scene. The answer lies within ourselves as a community, NOT with PUA!





a few posts from loveshy forum, possibily reposts from PUAHate

4 10 2013

Part 1:

“don’t know if science is allowed on this forum or if certain things are found offensive here, so please let me know if I am offending anyone.

I will say this briefly:

Women probably enjoy sex more than men. The clitoris has more nerve endings than the penis head. Women can have multiple orgasms. Most women have clitoral orgasms which are akin to penile ones, but women can also have vaginal orgasms which are deeper and longer lasting. There is no doubt that women can enjoy sex more than men, given enough arousal and a “pro” male partner.

Having said that, women’s sex drives are lower. Women want sex, but have more demands on it than men. Women will generally not (can I swear on here?) f*ck an unattractive man. Men will f*ck a woman he considers unattractive coz of his higher sex drive.

It’s this difference in drive that determines the Western dating market place. Men are ten-a-penny. Women are more valuable in the dating scene. Vagina is a scarce commodity. Dating could be considered a man buying his way into a woman’s pants while the woman decides if she will let him. The ball is in the female’s court as she is the chooser. Men do the approaching (of women). Women do the rejecting or accepting.

Biologically, it makes sense for the woman to be choosier – she has to pay a higher price for pregnancy. 9 months of vulnerability. Then childbirth. Then 18 years of raising the child. The man’s investment is over in minutes and he is free to plant a seed elsewhere after the refractory period.

For this reason, it is more common for an incel to be male than female. A male needs to be physically attractive and/or have money and/or have status to attract a woman in many cases. How many guys do you know that won’t date a woman because she doesn’t have a car or lives with her parents?

For a male to be incel, all he needs to be is average or below in looks. For a female to be incel, she needs to be really unattractive by western standards, or old. Because men have lower standards for women.

I distinguish between loveshy and incel. Incel IMO implies that you have been ACTIVELY seeking a dating partner as in APPROACHING potential suitors. Loveshy implies you can’t bring yourself to approach, so you expect suitors to come to you.

Do women consider themselves loveshy even if they haven’t approached many guys for dating?

Men, after rejections, are told to “man up” and go through more. It is not acceptable for a man to be hypoagent in his dating life. It is expected for a woman to be so, though.

Men and women are not “equal” in the dating world. There are more incel men here than women. That should tell you something.

Women can get sex easier than ordering a coffee at Starbucks. But many women would prefer a relationship. They can get that easier than a man can too.

Why do clubs charge women less entry? Because men flock to where women are. Women have a high sexual value. Men are like cockroaches trying to find a woman that will accept him. Men usually have to date down if they want to increase their likelihood of finding a date.

If this thread is deleted then that confirms that I am right but you need to be protected from the truth. Before I get in trouble for this, it would be nice if someone could provide counterarguments to these points. “

Part 2:

“I’m new here so I don’t wanna upset the applekart just yet, but when the mods are sure I’m not a troll, I’ll try and post some of the chatlogs from a fake male model dating profile. It’s INSANE. My opening line to one girl – to test how far this goes – was that I was going to k*ll myself, and I got her number, eventually. She said “I usually hate guys with topless pics”, but I guess the male model’s FACE overrode that. If your face makes a woman’s clit throb, then, to an extent, it doesn’t matter what you say, as long as you’re not a boring/asperger/psycopath.

Ironically, a woman can be a boring AND an asperger AND a psycopath and date TENS of guys per week.

I had one gf in my life. She was 19, I was 26 when I met her. I was her 9th bf. After me, she had at least 2 more bf’s that I know of. This isn’t including one night stands. I’ve been INCEL ever since.

A woman can walk into a supermarket and ask if anyone wants to date or f*ck her and she’ll get “yesses”. The only reason she’d get rejected is coz men would think it’s too good to be true.

An average looking man can’t even go to a bar twice a week for 2 months and hope to get a date or lay unless he approaches 250 lb burns victims (no offence to burns victims).”

Part 3:

“The male sex drive compared to that of females means that men seek it out more than women. Women love sex but are less driven to get it. Men will settle for a woman that isn’t his type just for that intimacy. For women, dating is a buyer’s market. A penis is worth nothing. Buy none, get 10,000 free. Vagina is worth more than a human life. A man might kill another man for looking at his girlfriend. Worth more than a human life.

– My friend J (about a 5 or 6 in looks) is dating a girl, L (about a 3). She is below his looks level but I guess he got tired of 8 years of inceldom, so decided that she would suffice.

– L has a friend, D. D is borderline fat but looks good when thin (I’ve seen old pics of her).

Long story short, J and L said that D kept talking about me after all four us met up once. She called me “eye candy” despite me being quite ugly. I was happy and thinking of asking her out until I found out that:

– she is still fucking her athletic ex bf
– she is fucking 2 other guys on the side
– she gets numerous offers for dates all the time.

This is what life is like for women under 40 who aren’t hideously ugly. Women get so many offers from guys. Soon enough, women are going to have so many options that they will be able to afford to be blatant about it. “If you don’t want to be one of my boyfriends, then, fine. Boyfriend slot #5 can be filled by a hot guy that I recently met”.

Once, my mother stuck her head out of the window for some air, and a guy said some romantic comment. My mother is 58. Fair enough, the guy was no Tyson Beckford or David Beckham but that’s pretty good going for not even having left your house.

There is a conjoined twin in the US. One of the twin sisters is engaged. Meanwhile the guys on this forum don’t share a communal anus with their brother, yet can barely get dates.

An authentic female incel is a female who is either:

– hideously deformed in some way (burns, limbs missing)
– tremendously overweight
– looks really old
– has psychological or relationship issues (e.g. abuse in her past; has 3 kids from 3 guys, etc)
– avoids being seen outside of going to work and food-shopping

Apart from that, a woman who calls herself incel really means “I can’t date guys who at the very least look like Robert Pattinson. I don’t need a George Clooney or Brad Pitt. Pattinson will suffice”. And these women look like Rosie O’Donnell.

So females rule the dating world. Women spend their youth, getting hit on by guys and accepting or rejecting them based on their looks. A female life is like that of a hollywood celebrity. Such dating power you will never experience unless your looks can make women’s genitals tingle.

As most men are incel and most females aren’t, women are able to set the market price in dating. The price now is that you (usually) must, as a male, in order to date a woman, have your own place, a good job, good looks, not be balding, be tall, have friends, drive preferrably, be confident(-looking), be funny, be dominant, etc.

Soon, the price will go up. Soon you will have to: – take on kids she had with her alpha ex boyfriend, – accept her other boyfriends, – pay her mortgage, – have a body like Dwayne Johnson, etc.

Are you ready for the future of dating?

Of course you’re not. You can’t even deal with dating as it is now.

Any male who disagrees with me but can’t attract women is in denial.
Any female who disagrees with this won’t be able to provide counterarguments.

The truth offends and is often banned and deleted.

Deal with it.”








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